Title: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: flying squirrel on Jan 21, 2013 08:00 pm Some things never change
I see the year 2013 continues with the Spiritual Soap Opera, between yoshi and Jitendra quick synopsis ~ as seen from squirrel’s view from the branch a constant communication misunderstanding between them poor yoshi ( not said out of pity, but understanding) she makes a statement or replies to something, then she is psychoanalyzed by Jitendra who goes on and on, dissecting each word ,each phrase, each sentence … then tries to smooth it all over by saying something like .. We appreciate your presence on the forum, your contributions, then talks about love, understanding etc. which for the most part is NOT visible in the replies he posts to her comments and who really cares about the dissection of the ego ? … each person has their own view about topics, each person should have the opportunity to state them, without having them viewed under a telescope and dissected after some time ,yoshi returns, and it starts all over again. this constant bickering, which sounds like an old married couple, is not pleasing to the view of any possible people viewing the site, with perhaps a thought of joining. if it was me, viewing as an observer, I would NOT join … and subject myself to such behavior.. Words of Squisdom, toss out with the dishwater , if you wish Happy New Year to all, fill it with peace ! 8) Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: guest88 on Jan 21, 2013 10:22 pm hi squirrel !
i was thinking about you last night, glad to see you and read this post thank you! from an objective view without understanding the depth or entirety of their conversations/connection i can agree with the dissecting of each persons words and personality. you might get a better response and clearer communication if you can learn to let go, move forward and not let the analytical mind dominate the intelligence that comes from the ability to feel and know- let time and universe heal, nurture and guide you with wisdom empty your cup jitendra and yoshi are very dear and beautiful souls i just ask you to remember your deepest goals. what you want for yourselves and how you want to treat others. we can all use this reminder daily wherever we are. those that come to the portal should feel free to express their uniqueness and individuality in a way that encourages their dance with creation i find nothing wrong with being challenged and looking back at ones own expression and beliefs but if i'm constantly being criticized by someone that claims to be my friend i wouldn't think of them much as a friend but as an oppressor a nuisance that i would later try and separate from. both parties deserve new opportunity and understanding. a cleansing bond that rejuvenates each others livelihood however on the flip side i know there are times when i've benefited from both jitendras and yoshis exchange so in honesty i just try to sit back and not take anything personal which is very hard for the little me that craves attention and acceptance ;D oh dear me now i've dissected and made judgement without really knowing ! who knows who or what's right anymore ! i love you both and squirrel and everyone else here this is a nice forum, there really is *no problem* and if there is yoshi and jitendra should let us know so we aren't talking for either of them in the end let's not forget we're all equally human bye! ;D Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: flying squirrel on Jan 21, 2013 11:35 pm hey dragonpie ! 8)
thanx for your thoughts this is a nice forum, there really is *no problem* and if there is yoshi and jitendra should let us know so we aren't talking for either of them squirrel wasn't talking for yoshi and jitendra squirrel was speaking from observational point of view 8) Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: yoshi on Jan 22, 2013 02:08 am happy 2013 squirrel !! :)
your observances are spot on. especially the psychoanalysis part. psychoanalysis deals with the physical brain / physical body. introduced by sigmund freud. who was not at all a spiritual man. erich fromm...was good. a man who was before his time was carl jung....he believed in souls !! he rocked. :D ;) good observances to you too eric :) let us not forget also...that we are all souls ;) (((Love&Hugs&OM))) yoshi Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: guest88 on Jan 22, 2013 03:12 am heheh squirrel
i got you hanging out on a limb =P and i agree with most of your observations, am really glad you posted actually :D i should have replaced we with i but really just wanted some clarification from yoshi and jitendra by saying that (http://i1320.photobucket.com/albums/u535/lunarmoss/DSCN0632_zps52a0cea7.jpg) happy 2013 indeed :) Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us? on Jan 22, 2013 05:53 am Hello squirrel and eric. It is wonderful to have
your participation. i do not think it is important to belabor the subject. Yet i wonder if u know? Yoshi told me that it 'seemed like i should use a better choice of words.on my responses. So then it was for me to understand what words i needed to improve.. I was trying to figure out what choice of words. It took sometime to get an answer and what she meant hence the analyses. Not of her but how i can improve my communication. At any rate i do hope u guys stick around more. It is probably better for Yoshi and i to communicate on the phone. We once did this daily . If we do not then to not do so on the forum as we have.... if it has the affect that it seems to generate in these recent posts. However, please remember that for all your outside observations: If her and i had not been communicating there are times we had better close shop here because not much was going on accept our bringing up topics and responding to them. When there r just a couple people involved this way u can not expect constant agreement nor should there have to be. So for those who have taken long breaks from Spiritual Portal: in all your observations from the outside looking in how about being on the inside looking out. i also have my observations from that perspective. The inside looking out: It is easy to be away for sometime and come back with a negative approach. It is much more difficult to b here constantly or to come back with a positve outlook on the strengths of people binding together, with all their differences, and helping us have unity as spiritual beings, making the effort to grow, get along and help each other reach a higher level of understanding. It is nice to have participation it takes some of the emphasis off of me and the analyses of me. We r fortunate to have friendship together here. Somethings change that r not noticed and for those things that seem to not change: let us not complain and moan but instead change ourselves so we can notice the good around us and make positive changes by our example. We all can make observations but y is it that some people observe ugliness and others beauty around them? Why is it that some people see our relationships disconnected and while others r able to observe synchronicity and divine order in relationships and the world around them? Steve Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us? on Jan 22, 2013 07:07 am hi squirrel ! i was thinking about you last night, glad to see you and read this post thank you! from an objective view without understanding the depth or entirety of their conversations/connection i can agree with the dissecting of each persons words and personality. you might get a better response and clearer communication if you can learn to let go, move forward and not let the analytical mind dominate the intelligence that comes from the ability to feel and know- let time and universe heal, nurture and guide you with wisdom empty your cup jitendra and yoshi are very dear and beautiful souls i just ask you to remember your deepest goals. what you want for yourselves and how you want to treat others. we can all use this reminder daily wherever we are. those that come to the portal should feel free to express their uniqueness and individuality in a way that encourages their dance with creation i find nothing wrong with being challenged and looking back at ones own expression and beliefs but if i'm constantly being criticized by someone that claims to be my friend i wouldn't think of them much as a friend but as an oppressor a nuisance that i would later try and separate from. both parties deserve new opportunity and understanding.and a cleansing bond that rejuvenates each others livelihood however on the flip side i know there are times when i've benefited from both jitendras and yoshis exchange so in honesty i just try to sit back and not take anything personal which is very hard for the little me that craves attention and acceptance ;D oh dear me now i've dissected and made judgement without really knowing ! who knows who or what's right anymore ! i love you both and squirrel and everyone else here this is a nice forum, there really is *no problem* and if there is yoshi and jitendra should let us know so we aren't talking for either of them in the end let's not forget we're all equally human bye! ;D Wow Eric this was such a kind and wonderful post! It is something i treasure and will read over from time to time. You may b interested There is this story about a saint and he had many devotees. One of them constantly criticized him. When the critic died the rest of the devotees were glad to b rid of him. Yet the saint was most saddened. He felt his loss greatly because it was he who had helped him become the saint he was. Jitendra Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: guest88 on Jan 23, 2013 09:07 am hi steve,
jitendra thank you and, i'm glad you and yoshi posted here. it really helped *clear the air* love and light _^_ Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us? on Jan 23, 2013 09:33 am hi steve, jitendra thank you and, i'm glad you and yoshi posted here. it really helped *clear the air* love and light _^_ i wonder if u would rather go by Eric or Dragonpie? People instigate changes but time is the great alchemist. It levels the ego and brings together people who are familiar to us. We have worked many life times: trying to perfect these relationships. When we recognize this divime purpose how we treat these soul companioms and what we say to them becomes of utmost importance in our road towards enlightenment. Jitendra Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: yoshi on Mar 14, 2013 04:21 am or could it be that people hang onto crap that was never meant to be ?
jeeeeze...could it be EGO ?? ?? ?? ?? or could it be interpreted as soul lesson ?? squirrels sick of it...and frankly so am i.... um....KARMA...EGO....those two are the main frame of LIFE.... gotta mediate/yoga and go unto god again and find out the answer..... all angels....all guru's will point the soul back unto god again.... Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: yoshi on Mar 14, 2013 04:28 am oooOOOHHH YA....
i dont know any better...so dont take no advice from me..... i haven't been there...i haven't done that...LAMO... from what advice is it that i give others ? OH, I JUST PULL IT OUT OF MY BUTT ?? i havent given lifetime after lifetime to god..........RIGHT ?? ?? you cower down , behind others...complaining to others about me...yet you will not contact me in person ?? ?? that is EGO. Title: Re: Some things NEVER change ! Post by: Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us? on Mar 14, 2013 07:38 am oooOOOHHH YA.... i dont know any better...so dont take no advice from me..... i haven't been there...i haven't done that...LAMO... from what advice is it that i give others ? OH, I JUST PULL IT OUT OF MY BUTT ?? i havent given lifetime after lifetime to god..........RIGHT ?? ?? ;D you cower down , behind others...complaining to others about me...yet you will not contact me in person ?? ?? that is EGO. Advice is as plentiful as hot air on a summer day most want to teach from their experience. Few of us are willing to be good listeners and learn from others. I have been making more of an effort to see how God can use even the ignorant around us to teach us. Advice is something an old person gives who is to old to set a bad example. It is something that is easy to give but tougher to follow. When people do not want your advice why give it? There are some members not seeking your/my advice. i am supporting you and continue to as long as it is possible to. i am not complaining about you. As an administrator i listen to the concerns of others. i do not care to take sides or get involved with the differences others share. Those differences should be expressed and handled personally between the people involved. On a different note; last i heard you did not want to talk to me on the phone and since i am in California it would be difficult to see you in person. Certainly i will return a call. :) If you have personal matters to speak with me about i have always been willing to speak with you and you know that. As you know we have been communicating by personal message and any questions you may have i also can address there. When blue and nova get together everyone knows about it and it keeps the forum lively! Now i understand why the name was sooo appropriate. Sorry u dropped it. ;D Jitendra |