But what I have noticed is when there is sadness around me...I often have sad dreams. The environment affects us in a subtle manner that reacts on a subconscious level. In the spirit of renunciation I will often tell a woman who is quite attractive to me of my intense interest in Amma. Sending someone a link can offer insight into another person. They may just ask you not to respond to them. Or on the contrary they May recognize The significance of the information. Even curiosity shows some receptivity.
Steve is this sadness the result of someone else crushing your desire or subconscious expectations?
Sometimes I will have sad and even horrific dreams which is why I find counting our blessings such a valuable practice.
Onward and upward my friend. <3