Lesson 61 helps those who are having problems with marriage. i found some good advice in there for me as well:
"It is better to have one's faults corrected by friends than to let them be discoverd by one's enemies. It is blessing to be corrected by a friend because he means to heal." ~ Yogananda
wondering, is Lesson 61 - topic really about marriage ? or are
you using this quote of Yogananda's to apply to topic of those having marriage problems ?
one's faults can be relative( not talking about family relatives ),
what one
thinks is fault of another may only be in the mind of the first person - difficult to say - if one is not directly involved in situation ..... which brings to mind your previous comment......
i think that it is very difficult to comment when we do not know the view of the other party involved. Are you comfortable with being 'anchored down'? If not perhaps there is a reason why not. Resolutions to such problems sometimes take years and often outsiders who try to help get caught in the crossfire. Steve Hydonus
am I seeing conflict between Yogananda's statement and yours ? not to disagree with Yogananda...... just wondering ?