Yes Anne but often we do not see that others care for us by maintaining a distance so that we do not enable our friends and people to go on doing harm to themselves and others. We can be seen as giving silent consent to a unworthy causes if we do not take a stand. Sometimes we get a very clear picture of our friends spinning their wheels in tired worn out situations. It is better at this time to help them by leaving them alone rather then spinning wheels with them. Human love and the Gurus love can go undetected when we keep set in a path that does not befit our spiritual aspirations.
Jitendra
some view a glass as half full....some view a glass as half empty. all depends on the viewer, where the consciousness lies...lays.
to me...everything....every action....has Reason....all beneficial,,,whether we know it or not.
no right....no wrong. it is...just the way it is.
some may view my life as suffering....others may not. some view life negatively...others may view positively...
soul enters body in order to will.....learn to use the will in order to get back to god again....
everything,,,,every action.....leads to god. therefore....everything is beneficial....
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<3<3<3 Somethings r more beneficial then others and some r more harmful then others and some people work at relationships and some work against them.
You can say walking in the path of a car is beneficial if u would like but we must also use our discrimination in all matters. To justify all actions is to rationalize and to make excuses for ourselves. But we cannot fool everyone.
This world is full of duality we r either going towards the light or we r going away from it. Some cooperate with right actions others consent to wrong ones by doing nothing when action is called for. This is a weakness and shows a lack of courage and conviction. It makes us puppets to fate and ultimately leads to our demise. There is very little gain without some sacrifice.
There r times in life where we come to a pivot point and we can see two ways at the crossroads. Sometimes there is no more road ahead because we have come to the end of the present road and we choose our fate by turning either right or left. We must take one or the other. 'Cross her and you will see' only a cliff and doom ahead. If we stay and never make a decision we will stagnate. If we go to the left we leave what was in the past behind if we go to the right we carry with us all our past. The choice is ours either way we gain something and loose something every day. This is a given. The choice is ours.
Jitendra