Somethings r more beneficial then others and some r more harmful then others and some people work at relationships and some work against them.
You can say walking in the path of a car is beneficial if u would like but we must also use our discrimination in all matters. To justify all actions is to rationalize and to make excuses for ourselves. But we cannot fool everyone.
This world is full of duality we r either going towards the light or we r going away from it. Some cooperate with right actions others consent to wrong ones by doing nothing when action is called for. This is a weakness and shows a lack of courage and conviction. It makes us puppets to fate and ultimately leads to our demise. There is very little gain without some sacrifice.
There r times in life where we come to a pivot point and we can see two ways at the crossroads. Sometimes there is no more road ahead because we have come to the end of the present road and we choose our fate by turning either right or left. We must take one or the other. 'Cross her and you will see' only a cliff and doom ahead. If we stay and never make a decision we will stagnate. If we go to the left we leave what was in the past behind if we go to the right we carry with us all our past. The choice is ours either way we gain something and loose something every day. This is a given. The choice is ours.
Jitendra
Once you climb the realms of highness, there is no good and bad, as rightly yoshi said.
Every thought, word, and action brings you closer to God. So, there can be no good or bad experiences, in view of the inner 'kuru-kshetra'.
There is only one reason, we are all going through 'this'. Some name it as 'religion', which means re-union, others call it 'yoga' for the same intent. Realization of our true Spiritual nature is meant.
'Conscious realization of humanity’s unity with Spirit is the goal of life and, consciously or unconsciously, every person tries to advance towards that end.'
So relax, and be happy my friend...
Much love, o.
