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« on: May 07, 2012 01:31 am »

What can we do to revive a stagnate relationship?
i often ask myself this question. i wonder if some of
u have dealt with this issue. Even more so i wonder
if some of u have found answers. Have u just given
up and moved on?

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« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2012 06:44 am »

i dont have the answers. instead i share opinion in hopes we figure things out together. but. what makes it stagnant and why is it upsetting you ? is it because you expect more out of the relationship ? you want something that's not being acknowledged ? or . . . ? in my recent past i deleted many contacts from my phone. i miss some of my very good friends because of it. in the end we should be grateful for all we share(whether that is with new or old friends, strangers even). if nothing is happening why dwell on it ? if you are their friend, will you still be there when they wish to come to you ? sometimes it's upsetting because perhaps the type of friendship we thought we shared is misunderstood. i think it's best to keep yourself moving, be true to yourself. don't be afraid to communicate the aspects of a relatioship you miss sharing. if some of these friends were once attracted and are now repelled, then yes move on. but that doesn't mean you are no longer friends. it means you don't need this to hold you down.
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« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2012 06:53 am »

i guess my answer is first to reflect on your relationship and maybe try understanding your emotions. maybe you can write out what it is you feel is missing or why you think things are the way they are. you can try communicating with your friend. if things dont seem like they're going anywhere, well maybe they don't need to be. i'd have to wonder at this point if i'm being to involved in someone elses life or if i'm not letting things flow naturally. but i'd also contemplate on establishing communication with the other if it really bothers you. well thats from my limited experience/understanding. good luck with everything ! you can also try remembering why you were such good friends to begin with.
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« Reply #3 on: May 07, 2012 03:03 pm »

being spontaneous.  never give up the 'inner child'.  
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« Reply #4 on: May 07, 2012 09:12 pm »

being spontaneous.  never give up the 'inner child'.  
 

Hey Cheif Little Word

If i am spontaneous how will one such as yourself take it? As an example: Can one activate their heart in motion when it is blocked or stopped ? ! The inner child wants to know.  :-)
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« Reply #5 on: Mar 30, 2016 10:39 am »


We may look at ourselves and realize we could have handled things better. i believe all of us recognize that at a certain level but it is very difficult to be spontaneous when we have been shut down and cut out. Spontaneity is something that arises out of an openness to recognize that doors that have been shut can be opened again and that sometimes it is just difficult to keep going on in the same direction when circumstances have changed so dramatically. People change relationships by the direction they choose to take. It is O.K. There is still room for spontaneity if we are receptive to lifes changes.
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We may look at ourselves and realize we could have handled things better.

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« Reply #7 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:17 pm »


We may look at ourselves and realize we could have handled things better.

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« Reply #8 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:22 pm »

i can't decode yours
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« Reply #9 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:25 pm »

i can't decode yours

i think we may be in the same boat floating down the stream. Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily; life is but a dream!

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« Reply #10 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:28 pm »

what do you mean?
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« Reply #11 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:31 pm »

what do you mean?

i was just realizing how we can't always tell how people will react to our words in advance so sometimes it is difficult to be spontaneous when that spontaneity can be interpreted as something threatening in the minds of others. If we do not choose our words carefully they can be filtered in the minds of others into something quite terrifying when they were in fact innocuous.
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« Reply #13 on: Mar 30, 2016 02:39 pm »

i couldn't agree more
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« Reply #14 on: Mar 30, 2016 03:19 pm »

being spontaneous.  never give up the 'inner child'.  

b i was responding to this idea by yoshi/bluenova and earlier responses made by dragonpie (eric). Hope this clears things up a bit!

what do you mean?
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