I believe nobody makes mistakes
O.K. i think that needs some explaining... it could be just your choice of words. i really believe that i would have handled things much differently with people had i known their reactions in advance. Since i have not been able to anticipate what they are all about i have had to revise a lot of how i respond to others. It is not all about me and my mistakes. It is also about others and how they perceive me and my responses. i have learned much about people and life through such encounters and probably will continue to.