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« on: Oct 26, 2012 11:11 pm »

I just wondered..... why do people love those who do not love them and then
are not in love with those people who love them?

I have been thinking about this for some time
and came to the conclusion that we really should
not keep fooling ourselves. we should just recognize
that some people are just not going to be good for us.
or at the very least get a grasp on the
limitations of the relationship.
some people just hold on to impossible dreams
with other people. sometimes I see myself
as 1 of those some people.

why do people keep on going on torturing themselves
in their attempt to stay with somebody
that's untenable; like holding on to
an untenable position. or dream a dream
to be with someone that is unrealistic for them? 
this subject has a lot of facets so I just thought
I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see
if anybody's responsive to it.

Jitendra
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« Reply #1 on: Oct 27, 2012 02:13 am »

I just thought
I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see
if anybody's responsive to it.

Jitendra

Hey Jitendra !  Cool

excellent idea, just throw out the question, HA HA !  Grin Grin

could be a simple answer, maybe it just wasn't meant to be ?

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« Reply #2 on: Oct 27, 2012 02:24 am »

I just thought
I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see
if anybody's responsive to it.

Jitendra

Hey Jitendra !  Cool

excellent idea, just throw out the question, HA HA !  Grin Grin

could be a simple answer, maybe it just wasn't meant to be ?



well now squirrel.... if I actually had
thrown out the question
it would not given  you the pleasure
of having answered..
seeing as to the fact that you
 actually did answer,
and usually do when there is
drama  around; it seems to have
served an important result.
since you my friend.....
we're meant to be here
for some important lessons.
and most importantly
I like you too much
to go over there right now.
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« Reply #3 on: Oct 27, 2012 02:29 am »


well now squirrel.... if I actually had
thrown out the question
it would not given  you the pleasure
of having answered..
seeing as to the fact that you
 actually did answer
and usually do when there is
drama  around; it seems to have
served in important result.
since you my friend
we're meant to be here
for some important lessons.
and most importantly
I like you too much
to go over there right now.
  Grin


don't see any drama in this question ......... yet  Grin Cool

off to make some popcorn, just in case ... for later
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« Reply #4 on: Oct 27, 2012 02:37 am »


well now squirrel.... if I actually had
thrown out the question
it would not given  you the pleasure
of having answered..
seeing as to the fact that you
 actually did answer
and usually do when there is
drama  around; it seems to have
served in important result.
since you my friend
we're meant to be here
for some important lessons.
and most importantly
I like you too much
to go over there right now.
  Grin


don't see any drama in this question ......... yet  Grin Cool

off to make some popcorn, just in case ... for later

simple questions deserve simple answers.
everything was meant to be even the
passing of a squirrel such as yourself.
 Wink

what?Huh?  popping popcorn these days
and no acorns! it's sacrilege.
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« Reply #5 on: Oct 27, 2012 06:20 am »

what?Huh?  popping popcorn these days
and no acorns! it's sacrilege.

popcorn was a special treat as a squirrelkin  Cool

and so much quicker than spending the afternoon looking for acorns !  Grin

words of Squisdom !  Grin Cool
 
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« Reply #6 on: Oct 27, 2012 05:02 pm »

what?Huh?  popping popcorn these days
and no acorns! it's sacrilege.

popcorn was a special treat as a squirrelkin  Cool

and so much quicker than spending the afternoon looking for acorns !  Grin

words of Squisdom !  Grin Cool
 
you are so squirrely. and to think I like you anyway.
I just wonder if you have a microwave up there
in that tree hut of yours. and if it runs off of solar panels
 Huh?
Hmmmm I'm going to have to try some of that popacorn
have you ever tried mama corn. it's a softer variety.
now want you be careful squirrel. rumor has it that Don Diego
is part of the underground drug cartel enforcement.
you ever notice how he shows up wihen things get a
 little weird around here?

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« Reply #7 on: Oct 27, 2012 05:07 pm »

back to the question

micro in my tree hut ?  Shocked are you serious ? Grin

Ranger Rick has a micro and he enjoys listening to my Squisdom
while we munch on the popcorn

gets lonely for him all day in the forest

one can only meditate and talk to the trees for so long !! HA HA !!  Grin Grin
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« Reply #8 on: Oct 27, 2012 10:21 pm »

Ranger Rick  Grin  comon squirrel that sounds so contrived.  Tongue
At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front
of the word.  Shocked

my apologies i need to explain something to you....

Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling
so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst.  Sorry...

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Hey Jitendra !  Cool

taking a shortcut brother ?

your reply in my post ?

do you mind ? well, I do  Cool

MOST confusing  Grin

can you tidy it up and put your reply in a seperate box ?

thanx !

then you can delete this post of mine  Cool


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« Reply #9 on: Oct 27, 2012 10:45 pm »

I just wondered..... why do people love those who do not love them and then
are not in love with those people who love them?

I have been thinking about this for some time
and came to the conclusion that we really should
not keep fooling ourselves. we should just recognize
that some people are just not going to be good for us.
or at the very least get a grasp on the
limitations of the relationship.
some people just hold on to impossible dreams
with other people. sometimes I see myself
as 1 of those some people.

why do people keep on going on torturing themselves
in their attempt to stay with somebody
that's untenable; like holding on to
an untenable position. or dream a dream
to be with someone that is unrealistic for them? 
this subject has a lot of facets so I just thought
I'd throw out the initial questions for now and see
if anybody's responsive to it.

Jitendra




O.K. No one is going to answer my question now. Accept Squirrel who usually sheds a lightness on these
kind of subjects. Perhaps he thinks it is helpful to lift the gravity.

i have come up with an answer for myself though:
It is best to be grateful for the love others have for you
even though you might not be able to return it in a
way that they would so desire. and..... not expect others
to return love to you in the way you would like.

All you can do is work on yourself and notice the reactions
that are coming from you from feeling 'hurt' or not getting
what you want. Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson
anyhow.

It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have
much sympathy for our personal desires. This world can
be a very frustrating place if we are not aware of the spiritual
purpose we are here for. Most of the human race are intent
on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process
with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma
and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane. i am just grateful to have
a few personal desires satisfied or understood. In reflection it has
showed me much about the people that come into my life and their
motives. When i have found others that genuinely care about me i find
the hand of God clearly working behind their actions.

Jitendra
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« Reply #10 on: Oct 28, 2012 12:03 am »

Ranger Rick  Grin  comon squirrel that sounds so contrived.  Tongue
At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front
of the word.  Shocked

my apologies i need to explain something to you....

Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling
so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst.  Sorry...

Steve


common squirrel, HA HA !!  Grin

hey, let me explain something to you brother

there was no thought whatsoever of those extra two letters, you mentioned...
I wasn't using an euphemism for anything, no hidden meaning there, certainly NOT what you were referring to  Shocked

no worries mate, I wasn't thinking the worst of you for replying in my space
I just didn't like it, LOL !  Grin

you can finish tidying up when you get a chance, no rush
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O.K. No one is going to answer my question now. Accept Squirrel who usually sheds a lightness on these
kind of subjects. Perhaps he thinks it is helpful to lift the gravity.

i have come up with an answer for myself though:
It is best to be grateful for the love others have for you
even though you might not be able to return it in a
way that they would so desire. and..... not expect others
to return love to you in the way you would like.

All you can do is work on yourself and notice the reactions
that are coming from you from feeling 'hurt' or not getting
what you want. Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson
anyhow.

It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have
much sympathy for our personal desires. This world can
be a very frustrating place if we are not aware of the spiritual
purpose we are here for. Most of the human race are intent
on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process
with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma
and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane. i am just grateful to have
a few personal desires satisfied or understood. In reflection it has
showed me much about the people that come into my life and their
motives. When i have found others that genuinely care about me i find
the hand of God clearly working behind their actions.

Jitendra


Hey Jitendra !  Cool

Patience, patience  Tongue

you just posted your question yesterday and you want answers NOW ! ?
give people time to think about this question

squirrel's personal opinion on these love questions:

seems to me you get too bogged down with this love idea

disregard my opinion, if need be  Grin


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« Reply #12 on: Oct 28, 2012 12:23 am »

i thought ranger rick was a racoon...   Huh? Wink

jitendra wrote:
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Maybe that is part of the spiritual lesson
anyhow.
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this is what the earthly plane and human body are all about.  lessons...learning...finding god again.

jitendra wrote:
It often seems to me that our spiritual guides do not have
much sympathy for our personal desires.


no they do not.  they point us to god.

jitendra wrote:
and..... not expect others
to return love to you in the way you would like.


expectation is human not of god or soul.   expect nothing from everyone (humans).  never count on human beings.....count on god.

Jitendra wrote:
Most of the human race are intent
on satisfying personal desire and creating new desires in the process
with no perception that it is desire that causes an endless chain of karma
and cycle of rebirth on the earth plane.


spot on.

love&hugs&om
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« Reply #13 on: Oct 28, 2012 01:34 am »

Ranger Rick  Grin  comon squirrel that sounds so contrived.  Tongue
At least you used a euphemism instead of having the obvious 'pr' in front
of the word.  Shocked

my apologies i need to explain something to you....

Often the computer does not connect to towers when i am traveling
so i have to use the cell phone when i connect to the internet. When i do this the commands i can use are limited and it often leads to a host of issues. The best thing i can do is wait till the computer connects again and then clear up some of the issues. Please consider thinking the best of someone before thinking the worst.  Sorry...

Steve


common squirrel, HA HA !!  Grin

hey, let me explain something to you brother

there was no thought whatsoever of those extra two letters, you mentioned...
I wasn't using an euphemism for anything, no hidden meaning there, certainly NOT what you were referring to  Shocked

no worries mate, I wasn't thinking the worst of you for replying in my space
I just didn't like it, LOL !  Grin

you can finish tidying up when you get a chance, no rush

It must be part of my imagination. The mind gets corrupted when allowed to roam freely on it's own.  Cool
guess i should keep my signature/squirrel/sunglasses on to keep this from happening.
  Cool
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« Reply #14 on: Oct 28, 2012 01:42 am »

i thought ranger rick was a racoon...

yoshi 
Huh? Wink


Let me see now: ricky racoon or is it pricky prack prooh.  Huh? oh no now my head is spinning again. Where are elfun, my personal council, or the 10 moods of Dr. Spook   Embarrassed
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