If indeed you got the business opportunity that arose in your area; would it have sent u in a different direction then the direction that divine order seems to have put you? Where would your spiritual rudder have drifted you in if you had not had those people act in such strange ways. Would you for instance be here talking with me now? Would i have the privilege of spending time with you? Just some thoughts you may want to consider. What do i know? But the fact is that sometimes the questions are more important then the answers.
I do not deny that the experience was a lesson and it may have turned out for my best. Unfortuntely, the relationships with the persons involved, one of those a friend of mine, are not the same and will not ever be. A limit of myself probably, but treason remains treason.