Is Your Heart Heavy? Try Metta Meditation

[Serena Duvet]

             

                 

                                               Night Blooming Cereus


I feel love and compassion for all beings.  This is one way to manifest those feelings in meditation.

                                                       METTA MEDITATION

The practice of Metta meditation is a beautiful support to other awareness practices. One recites specific words and phrases evoking a "boundless warm-hearted feeling." The strength of this feeling is not limited to or by family, religion, or social class. We begin with our self and gradually extend the wish for well-being happiness to all beings.

There are different descriptions of the practice. The following is a basic set of instructions from the book "The Issue at Hand" by Gil Fronsdal written as a gift to the community. It is freely given.

Brief Instructions for Loving-Kindness Meditation

To practice loving-kindness meditation, sit in a comfortable and relaxed manner. Take two or three deep breaths with slow, long and complete exhalations. Let go of any concerns or preoccupations. For a few minutes, feel or imagine the breath moving through the center of your chest - in the area of your heart.

Metta is first practiced toward oneself, since we often have difficulty loving others without first loving ourselves. Sitting quietly, mentally repeat, slowly and steadily, the following or similar phrases:

May I be happy. May I be well. May I be safe. May I be peaceful and at ease.

While you say these phrases, allow yourself to sink into the intentions they express. Loving-kindness meditation consists primarily of connecting to the intention of wishing ourselves or others happiness. However, if feelings of warmth, friendliness, or love arise in the body or mind, connect to them, allowing them to grow as you repeat the phrases. As an aid to the meditation, you might hold an image of yourself in your mind's eye. This helps reinforce the intentions expressed in the phrases.

After a period of directing loving-kindness toward yourself, bring to mind a friend or someone in your life who has deeply cared for you. Then slowly repeat phrases of loving-kindness toward them:

May you be happy. May you be well. May you be safe. May you be peaceful and at ease.

As you say these phrases, again sink into their intention or heartfelt meaning. And, if any feelings of loving-kindness arise, connect the feelings with the phrases so that the feelings may become stronger as you repeat the words.

As you continue the meditation, you can bring to mind other friends, neighbors, acquaintances, strangers, animals, and finally people with whom you have difficulty. You can either use the same phrases, repeating them again and again, or make up phrases that better represent the loving-kindness you feel toward these beings. In addition to simple and perhaps personal and creative forms of metta practice, there is a classic and systematic approach to metta as an intensive meditation practice. Because the classic meditation is fairly elaborate, it is usually undertaken during periods of intensive metta practice on retreat.

Sometimes during loving-kindness meditation, seemingly opposite feelings such as anger, grief, or sadness may arise. Take these to be signs that your heart is softening, revealing what is held there. You can either shift to mindfulness practice or you can—with whatever patience, acceptance, and kindness you can muster for such feelings—direct loving-kindness toward them. Above all, remember that there is no need to judge yourself for having these feelings.

Excerpts gratefully reprinted from the book The Issue at Hand by Gil Fronsdal, guiding teacher of Insight Meditation Center.

~ See the bottom of the page at this link for the full text:

http://www.mettainstitute.org/mettameditation.html

         

[Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us?]

That is a wonderful meditation Serena. It reminds me of some of the loving compassion meditations I used to  practice in Buddhism. It is a novel way to meditate and pray for others.
Sometimes it is difficult to know how to send powerful energy to others when you really love them. I really miss meditating with Buddhist friends in Kalamazoo Michigan. The flower is
uniquely gorgeous. I wonder if it is pronounced 'serious'. I don't think I'm familiar with that flower. You seem to have a vast appreciation and knowledge of herbs, flowers, trees and foilage. Thanks for sharing. 

Jitendra

[Serena Duvet]

I like the Metta meditation very much.

About the flower...

its name is pronounced almost like serious - if you just change the beginning to "sir" rather than seer (like serious!)

sir-ē-əs

A little about the flower from the encyclopedia:

The genus Selenicereus (night-blooming cereus, or moon cactus), containing about 20 species, is known for its large, usually fragrant, night-blooming white flowers, among the largest in the cactus family. The queen-of-the–night (S. grandiflorus), the best-known night-blooming cereus, is often grown indoors (like the one shown in the photo.)

[Jitendra Hy-do-u-no-us?]

May I be happy.  May I be well. May I be safe. May i be peaceful and at ease.
May you be happy. May you be well. May you be safe. May you be peaceful and at ease.
 

[Serena Duvet]

Sometimes the simplest things can be the most profound.  Whether you call what you do a mantra, a prayer, an affirmation, or positive thinking, positive energy and love can affect how we feel, our relationships, and our health.  It moves in the direction of peace and unity...