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« Reply #15 on: Apr 17, 2014 05:17 am »

Well, I masturbated last night but it was past 12 o clock. So I am not counting today. So it will start tomorrow. I will use https://chains.cc/ to keep track. You can create one and link it to mine if you want.

I am glad you are joining me.
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« Reply #16 on: Apr 17, 2014 09:09 am »

So I will be posting inspirational and encouraging quotes here to assist us in the endeavor. It won't be easy. 90 days is a long time. There are many pitfalls. A few to be avoided are:

* Situations (know the situations that trigger your desire for sexual expressions of various kinds and avoid those)

* All forms of tantric excuses (for this 90 days, forget that you ever heard of tantra: no getting "power" from looking at naked pictures, etc.)

*Edging (enjoying the sensations of lust without ejaculation)

I don't have a partner, but if you do I would recommend having a talk with her and letting her know your intentions - that they are only temporary and that for the duration of the experiment you would like to focus on non-physical aspects of your relationship and express love in non-physical ways.

I also say we check in with a progress report every sunday evening, reporting our experiences, until the final report on July, 16.

Also, if you ever feel a temptation come back to this thread if possible.

It also may be helpful if we take a temporary vow for the 90 day period to help strengthen our commitment. I have small contract written up to solidify the commitment. I need your name and email address and you can sign it virtually.

Finally, please go to https://chains.cc/ and create an account and link to me.

"Just as hunger, not greed, has a legitimate purpose, so the sexual instinct has been implanted by Nature solely for the propagation of the species, not for the kindling of insatiable longings. Destroy wrong desires now; otherwise they will remain with you after the astral body has been separated from its physical casing. Even when the flesh is weak, the mind should be constantly resistant. If temptation assails you with cruel force, overcome it by impersonal analysis and indomitable will. Every natural passion can be mastered." - Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri

So, these quotes are going to serve as inpsiration for the experiment. However, we are not necessarily taking on any views for or against sex or it's metaphysical components. We are merely going to practice total abstinence for 90 days to observe it's effects on us.

Are you sure you're up for the challenge?

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« Reply #17 on: Apr 17, 2014 09:20 am »

"Conserve your powers. Be like the capacious ocean, absorbing quietly all the tributary rivers of the senses. Daily renewed sense yearnings sap your inner peace; they are like openings in a reservoir that permit vital waters to be wasted in the desert soil of materialism. The forceful, activating impulse of wrong desire is the greatest enemy to the happiness of man. Roam in the world as a lion of self-control; don't let the frogs of sense weakness kick you around." Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri

another helpful resource: http://yoganandaharmony.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/Sex-Force-Transmutation.pdf
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« Reply #18 on: Apr 17, 2014 02:16 pm »

"Conserve your powers. Be like the capacious ocean, absorbing quietly all the tributary rivers of the senses. Daily renewed sense yearnings sap your inner peace; they are like openings in a reservoir that permit vital waters to be wasted in the desert soil of materialism. The forceful, activating impulse of wrong desire is the greatest enemy to the happiness of man. Roam in the world as a lion of self-control; don't let the frogs of sense weakness kick you around." Swami Sri Yukteswar Giri

another helpful resource: http://yoganandaharmony.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/Sex-Force-Transmutation.pdf

Brock thanks for the article. I have seen similar exercises in the SRF lessons. I wonder what this organization is? Anyhow the kriyas are also a helpful exercise for control since they bring the vital energies upward. I want to express one more time though I believe that balance is a more productive path rather than abstinence, until all our passions are under control. Yet everyone has their own unique path that is why Paramahansa Yogananda offered various methods and approaches to spiritual advancement. I appreciate your contributions. When I was speaking with a Brother in California he recommended a certain book to me since I was living a monastic type of life at that time and at various periods of my life i have been celibate. There are also various factors and events in our lives that promote different views of sexual or non sexual stances and physical expression. If you are interested I will find out  the name of the book again.

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« Reply #19 on: Apr 17, 2014 02:31 pm »

In theory I am against this. But that is why I am going with the experiment.

Steve-o, I think you're saying the correct thing. A lot of this just creates unhealthy individuals who are sexually disturbed. But what can I say? You know it is a crazy person you are talking to.

I am going to try this, but I wouldn't blame you hippo if you opt out. It's probably not right for your situation and 90 days is longer than you think.
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« Reply #20 on: Apr 17, 2014 03:01 pm »

In theory I am against this. But that is why I am going with the experiment.

Steve-o, I think you're saying the correct thing. A lot of this just creates unhealthy individuals who are sexually disturbed. But what can I say? You know it is a crazy person you are talking to.

I am going to try this, but I wouldn't blame you hippo if you opt out. It's probably not right for your situation and 90 days is longer than you think. I don't know anything anymore. I am just shooting in the dark at this point (no pun intended).

Perhaps it might be better to see if moderation can be practiced. At least in this way there is no failure. My father used to say to me; ' Son you never fail unless you give up. '  I am quite sure he was not speaking about this experiment but that adage fits most circumstances. Quite frankly; I have met some sick individuals who have pretended to be celibate but I also have met some very exalted souls who were.

Life is for learning.
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« Reply #21 on: Apr 17, 2014 03:20 pm »

Well let me assure you, this time it is an exalted soul you are speaking with.

and quit trying to dissuade me from this experiment, I already said I am going through with it.
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« Reply #22 on: Apr 17, 2014 04:24 pm »

Well let me assure you, this time it is an exalted soul you are speaking with.

and quit trying to dissuade me from this experiment, I already said I am going through with it.

It is something this one has done -  not as an experiment but rather because I was looking for something more than what life had offered me and I was disappointed with my most recent romantic encounters.
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« Reply #23 on: Apr 17, 2014 04:50 pm »

So how long did you do it for and what were your experiences?
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« Reply #24 on: Apr 17, 2014 06:08 pm »

So how long did you do it for and what were your experiences?


Do not want to dissuade you or feed you with my experiences at this point because it is your experiment. Let us compare notes when you are finished with your experiment. In the meantime I encourage you to continue. All of life is quite a trippy experiment!
No soliloquies for now Brock.   Grin
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« Reply #25 on: Apr 17, 2014 06:10 pm »

I don't know how to tell you just how crazy this life feels...
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« Reply #26 on: Apr 17, 2014 06:41 pm »


Starting tomorrow since I masturbated last night.

brock  :Dlol
that is funny
so i started 4/16/2014. if i break it i'll let you know. i don't post much except for when i'm at work. we can continue to carry on in PM or we can continue to share here. i appreciate your quotes for keeping us focued. i discussed my intentions last night and all is well. you came up with some additional rules here, i'm going to have to re-read everything. also, going to get the app when i can.

i'm ok on the vow thing. i've already started, i don't need it to be more official then that Tongue
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« Reply #27 on: Apr 17, 2014 06:44 pm »

my chains account name is odd_dang

gotta go

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« Reply #28 on: Apr 17, 2014 07:17 pm »

you have to join the group, try it here:

https://chains.cc/groups/HUdkoP3soM9Ttnk
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« Reply #29 on: Apr 17, 2014 07:57 pm »

I don't know how to tell you just how crazy this life feels...

It is one thing to have your own dreams but then to have a recognition that you are also part of God's dream makes life indeed surealistic. It is fortunate that a few of us have found each other and are waking up.
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