uThanks Steve. See, communication like this helps me to understand better, too.
I am no expert, but it seems to me one of the main reasons we come to this beautiful planet is to understand
ourselves better. "Know thyself." It's one of the prime directives from God! To do this, we need contrast - other people; not so they can pass us their knowledge, but so we may learn who
we are (and who we wish to become) for ourselves by way of contrast - through observation and comprehension. Growth. It has to come from deep inside - not outside. By getting to know each other over time, we learn more about the other - but the
real prize is we may see parts of ourselves we could not before. That is the beauty of relationships. We are crystals shining God's light and love, but we are also mirrors reflecting the best and worst parts of those who observe us - and they reflect ours. Does that make sense? In this way, yeah - I am helping! I help just by existing, getting out of bed each day - showing up - speaking up sometimes. You are helping in this way, too. That is oversimplifying, but sometimes you have to break things down to the tiniest thing to grasp what is really true and what is just window dressing. So, when one sees relationships in this light - it isn't so much about e-mail vs the phone, or growing an internet community, or who gives and who takes exactly what and when and why and what it all means and if it is perfectly balanced, etc. I mean, those things are important - but it's more about the
connection and vision. If we can only connect with people who do very specific things, or who think in very specific ways, then we know we need to grow. I suspect you are an open minded person. I am, too. We have that in common. But there are oceans of differences beyond that. If we can struggle through communication, we might grow. As I've said before, only God can really know a person; but the rest of us can learn a lot from each other by accepting the fact that we don't know much. Lol. Also, asking questions and listening helps. Being clear. Okay, did any of that make sense? Sorry it is so long - I had not the time to make it short. Finally, as I said, I am no expert. This is where I am at currently in my thought process, all of it subject to change and/or totally erroneous. Peace to you. You have done a lovely thing by creating this space for people to come and share. You can be proud of it.
Hello dear one
U have left quite a bit to ponder here. No specific questions though. Wouldnt u think that i concur with u for the most part?
The way u do things makes sense for u. I accept that. U have to allow people the ability to grow and meet others according to their own ways and time. The tragedy i have seen is this; many times i have seen important people in our lives make their transition. Its somewhat like the song:
Every Thing I Own
You sheltered me from harm
Kept me warm, kept me warm
You gave my life to me
Set me free, set me free
The finest years I ever knew,
Were all the years I had with you
And I would give anything I own
I'd give up my life, my heart, my home
I would give everything I own,
Just to have you back again
You taught me how to love
What it's of, what it's of
You never said too much,
But still you showed the way
And I knew from watching you
Nobody else could ever know,
The part of me that can't let go
And I would give anything I own,
I'd give up my life, my heart, my home
I would give everything I own,
Just to have you back again
Is there someone you know,
Your loving them so,
But taking them all for granted?
You may lose them one day
Someone takes them away,
And they don't hear the words you long to say
I would give anything I own,
I'd give up my life, my heart, my home
I would give everything I own,
Just to have you back again;
Just to touch you once again
Songwriters: DAVID GATES
When people our gone there will b no more parting words. No more... I Love You. No more...i didnt realize how much u meant to me. No more sharing memories. No more reaching out and telling someone u cared. Only memories...... Only...... memories. Our lips will b sealed. That someone that takes us away is the greatest lover of all: GOD
