I tried the tools you cite but there were no specific keywords and the last post in that thread was not recent; in a few words, it was takin too loooooonggggggggg!!!
If we r patient with others-others will be patient with ourselves. If we r patient with ourselves we will b patient with others. It just takes some working on! U and i practice patience regularly when we meditate. Its helping us rite along. It really great! But sometimes we ask others to help us along or they serve us so that it is not so difficult!
Sometimes though... we find others leave us because they have lost patience. We still can b patient with them by praying for them and wait for how ever long it takes!