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« Reply #15 on: Jul 06, 2016 12:10 am »

... We can often think that we have done something 'wrong' if someone does not communicate with us that we have known. Especially if they cut us off. However this is not always the case. Sometimes people are just going thru things that just do not include us or they have found someone else or something else to replace us temporarily or even permanently. .....

thanks steve for the drop in and the wisdom...

sometimes its hard to let go once you've realized you are no longer a part of a persons life.
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« Reply #16 on: Jul 06, 2016 01:18 am »

... We can often think that we have done something 'wrong' if someone does not communicate with us that we have known. Especially if they cut us off. However this is not always the case. Sometimes people are just going thru things that just do not include us or they have found someone else or something else to replace us temporarily or even permanently. .....

thanks steve for the drop in and the wisdom...

sometimes its hard to let go once you've realized you are no longer a part of a persons life.

It takes quite a lot of gracefulness, poise, self awareness and kindness to be friendly under such occurrences. Most people do not even realize they r being tested for these qualities. Most people just don't have it. But we have the ability to be quite different. Regardless of what others set up for themselves we can set up a reality that is quite different for ourselves by our actions and attitudes towards such events and people.
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« Reply #17 on: Jul 08, 2016 06:55 pm »

... We can often think that we have done something 'wrong' if someone does not communicate with us that we have known. Especially if they cut us off. However this is not always the case. Sometimes people are just going thru things that just do not include us or they have found someone else or something else to replace us temporarily or even permanently. .....

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It becomes easier and easier as we begin to understand the unkindness of some people. In reality we r blessed to have such people taken out of our lives. Where there is kindness u will see communication at some level. Where there is not the true colors of others finally fly there sad 😢
flags. It takes some years to often find this. But if someone refuses to communicate u r being spared their meanness. For those who practice kindness there r people who r kind. Let cruelty go. Let the abuse of using the silent treatment go. It is evident that some really do practice meanness. It is a mental illness. When people close forever all forms of communication; This shows extreme character deficiencies.

while seeing amma she made the comment that those who give others the silent treatment and stick their nose up in the air actually have a form of mental illness. sometimes we wonder about ourselves when this treatment is given to us however we should realize that people do practice meaness and this kind of behavior is a result of beimg so wrapped up in ourselves and our ego that there is only one view; our own.

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« Reply #18 on: Aug 01, 2016 08:03 pm »

i have found a very interesting phenomena take place since the advent of computers, forums and texting. When i was a child and teen-ager we communicated by seeing one another and by writing letters that went thru the mail. We also could call one another. At that time there were people who were pen pals and others who spent time together physically and then there were those who spoke on the phone for long hours. If you wanted to have friends you had to compromise and meet people half way with their chosen form of communication.

Today we find ourselves in the same situation. Imagine if i was to demand a friend to write to me only by mail.... like we did years ago. Would i have many friends? But there are people today who demand that there friends continue communicating the way they want to and the way they feel most comfortable with but will not compromise. There are others who cut off communication completely as some form of punishment or hostility they have towards others. If someone completely cuts off all communication with us we have no choice but to come up with our own conclusions.

Imagine if we were to think to ourselves;"God does not talk to me therefore there is no God." Or "God does not make it easy to communicate with him so therefore i will not try". Well many people, if not most people in the world reason this way. However; we are going to have to meet God half way if we want to have rapport with him. In the same way we need to do this with friends. If we have been on the path for very long this life we find that we have sought and found various aspects of God thru those we have been with. How can we be unkind to that or to them?

Just a few thoughts for today.....
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