Message #22546

[kingfisher111]

There's a wide spectrum of types of people and reasons to be around them or not.

I think if we close our eyes, and find a moment of peace within, and then trust our intuition to guide us, it is clear who and who not to be around, for our own well being.

Sometimes, you have no choice be to be someone's neighbor, or see someone at work who you don't get along with, etc. so finding the right balance of politeness, friendliness and healthy boundary varies from situation to situation...


If we put ourselves "out there" too much with the wrong people (for us, at least), we could get hurt and then feel less safe in putting ourselves "out there" anytime soon with others.


I don't think it's too important to worry about this stuff, though, actually... Things have tendency to work themselves out in a way that is harmonious for all parties, as long as we don't feed into negative energy or drama...