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« on: Aug 09, 2016 03:04 am »

 Huh?

I get the impression that some people think if you are careful about your speech you are being shy, fake, or are hiding something, or being manipulative in some other way. Or that you are fearful and guarded. So what is the right way?

Yes we are hiding something. Eric has been around here long enough to know that we have had members who were designated as global moderator and/or administrator. They have actually-out of anger- have tried to destroy this forum. Now if i was to say actually what they did and how long it took to 'fix' things it may astonish you. Now why would someone hide such things from others? Very simple. Even though these people may no longer consider me friends... i consider them friends and would not want to be the cause of more anger in them. i have known some of them much more closer and for years. But it may take years to understand the mental illness of others and to what extent that mental illness can cause misery to others and to everyone they meet. It is true that some may not even be mentally ill. It is just difficult to know in for sight just what a person is capable of in advance.

Being fearful and guarded is one thing being naive and not receptive to the many personality quirks of others leaves yourself open to the night mare that plays in the depths of the minds of many people who come into our lives. When someone is given privileges and there is trouble ahead. It is simple enough to look at who gave those privileges and to ask that person with seriousness; Why did you let that person have those privileges? Then someone you care about leaves because u did not side with them. Oh yes many things happen in life u would rather forget about. i suppose Jesus felt similar feelings when he had to take credit for giving Judas the power to determine his fate.
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« Reply #1 on: Aug 09, 2016 03:30 am »

LOL...Steve, a simple no would've sufficed...

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« Reply #2 on: Aug 09, 2016 02:41 pm »

LOL...Steve, a simple no would've sufficed...

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Really? Most people have to know. Then when they find out they often become angry. It is remarkable i was on another forum and the administrator used to joke about my astrology and told me she did not believe in it. However she was interested in getting a reading. So when i did give a reading i was suddenly too personal in the reading and was removed from the forum. So you see we have a spin-doctor who is trying to keep the story together of  'who I am '.   We believe our own press releases. But now she is looking for an astrologer. So you see most spiritual seekers want the truth however when they get it they find they have bit off more then they can chew and instead of taking credit for the fact that is what they did they would place the blame on the other person. Its always easier to blame someone else and to keep the story of our own headlines straight in our own minds by blaming others for what we ourselves hold the responsibility for. i would not be able to comment this way except for the dramatic reaction to events with no explanation. Does everyone have something to learn from the situation? Of course. The problem arises when others take destructive actions. Destroying others records And actually trying to destroy a forum they were at one time happy at but now does not satisfy current desires.

i think parents raising kids will quickly learn a simple no does not work. We have a right to learn and be given explanations especially if we take it upon ourselves to destroy first and then never explain. Once someone has done this their anger is obvious. We really need no other explanations for anger. Because then people will rationalize by such comments as 'oh that was justifiable anger.'

I get the impression that some people think if you are careful about your speech you are being shy, fake, or are hiding something, or being manipulative in some other way. Or that you are fearful and guarded. So what is the right way?

So you asked this question above. i tried to answer it. But you send me mixed messages. One is you want to have answers but then you do not. Not sure what you want Brock. For me i felt the same way about another forum administrator. Its like some people want to know but 'tell me in the way i am willing to listen' if you do not i will simply eliminate you from my life with no explanation. i think the best we can do is to be kind in our speech and behavior with others.
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« Reply #3 on: Aug 10, 2016 12:01 am »

Steve, I am just unable to follow you. You don't seem to me very direct and I basically have no idea what you're talkin' bout. I didn't ask why you chose not to make me an administrator. Frankly, I do not care.

Take this off your mind, Steve-o. It is a nonissue.

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« Reply #4 on: Aug 10, 2016 12:17 am »

Steve, I am just unable to follow you. You don't seem to me very direct and I basically have no idea what you're talkin' bout. I didn't ask why you chose not to make me an administrator. Frankly, I do not care.

Take this off your mind, Steve-o. It is a nonissue.

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Alrite brother. If u need answers let me know. u know i am not always sure about myself either. Life is like improv. We improv to find the right actions and sometimes if it is possible we would rather not make decisions because we know how easy it is to mess up relationships. But there are times there is no waiting. We and others have waited long enough we cannot let our lives be left on hold. There are people like that.... they will put your life on hold. It is not wise to let others do this to us. We do deserve answers and kindness from others. But there are those who just cannot be kind. They will cause misery in one way or another. It is best to avoid frequent contact with such types.

So u may ask; Now what are you talking about now? It is really no statement directed at you. It is just when someone says something my mind has a a proclivity to respond. There may be nothing rational about it. Sometimes i look back and say to myself; Where did those words come from? It is kind of like free form....free association!! But some people elicit response from others. There are those that have hardly any influence on us. They are like talking to rocks. i would say that is good quality... to have the ability to inspire response from those around us.
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