Message #14251

[Starling]

Hello Starling it is a comfort to have your presence. It really depends on how someone responds to your helping them (we can surmise that by the angles.) understand themselves. Some people would be very receptive to that if they were making an effort to understand themselves.

But I thimk in some way you might be hidden from others in his life. The 12th is also the house of affairs. Hidden sorrows...yes but also hidden joys! I actually have a real wonderful friend and my Sun, Uranus and Venus set in her 12th. She loves to hear about it (her chart) and says I understand her more than anyone. All those planets are opposed by her natal Saturn Mars and Venus. Well what can i say...relationships are usually challenging... a Hey what do you think of my chart?t least the intense ones. Its a dynamic that creates growth and change. Eventually one partner starts to understand the purpose of the relationship and moves on. If there is a spiritual basis in the relationship it can go on for lifetimes. If not it would be a karmic relationship where debts are being worked out.  Any how there is so much more I see here between the two of you. Both of you need to find the truth about the relationship
that is evident in the Sun/Neptune configuration.

It will take more time. Hope you stay around a while this time. I have missed you. Hey what do you think of my chart?

Steve

Hey Steve, I have read this post over and over, and for some reason I feel disturbed with it. I guess it is the Neptune aspect that causes me to not see it clearly.....and I don't want to.... Really am trying to figure out your statement..... "But I thimk in some way you might be hidden from others in his life." We are rarely apart, he doesn't go anywhere...who could I be hidden from? Don't get this one? Thing is with our relationship, we very seldom have arguments things are calm and peaceful. We do have disagreements sometimes, but nothing that we get upset about.I accept him for him and he accepts me for me, and try as much as we can to let each other be ourselves..and not change the other.(however,subconsciously we have both changed) I think this relationship for both of us has brought about a  good change from what we both had before we met, we have grown alot together in the last 4 1/2 yrs.  He of course isn't into the astrology, he will listen to me when I tell him things about our charts, he knows I am interested and respects my interest..... but he doesn't believe in them   So in knowing that... how in the world will we be able to look at things with the same perspective? How will we ever find the truth about our relationship (sun/neptune configuration) I may be able to have some foresight by utilizing astrology...but don't know what to look for...esp with the mars/venus/ pluto thingy going on, all that does is make me suspicious naturally.....I hate that feeling, and believe me I CAN feel it...it is very strong and that already gives us issues with me mistrusting him when he hasn't done a thing....we have been there 2-3 times in the time we have been together.I feel very confused about all of this stuff and the mind gets to working overtime with it not healthy for our relationship to have these feelings. What can one do, but remind yourself that the feelings are the cause of this aspect( mars/venus/pluto) ? Anyways, I will take a peek at your chart, Uranus square Sun: Some obstacle? Jupiter conjunction Uranus: A sudden windfall?with Jupiter coming into aspect with Uranus.Must go for now....I am also pleased we have connected yet again, will try to stick around live gets busy sometimes, never seems as though there are enough hours to attend to everything we want....  ~Peace & Blessings~ Sue

dear sue, you and your beloved are just fine. had you not read whatever information it is concering you where would your mind be now ? from what i've read- you've stated both of you respect each other and are growing together. this is sincere love. so you don't have the exact perspective on something- what of it ? these things are changing anyway. i mean no disrespect but from what i've read it also seems like you're really bothered by something that can't be confirmed as a reality- only that this fear exist in your mind. the time you've been together tells me there is a certain level of trust that is to be admired and sometimes it's nice to be reminded and to retrace your steps. relax and nurture not only your partner but yourself as well.

i'm sure things are fine now and that you've even found a remedy for yourself before my posting- just wanted say something
thanks 

Hey Dragonpie,
Thank you for your words of encouragement....redirection does sometimes help I find I need that at times, my mind does wander and makes a thought much worse than it actually is. Relaxing......... ~ Peace & Blessings~ Sue