Excuse me, corn ball? If you just write gobbledygook no one knows what you're talking about. I thought my question was perfectly reasonable. I don't know what you thought but I won't just take it off ya like that. If you want someone to give noogies to you better go find one. I'm not a monk.
Now for your question. I think we all obviously feel mixed feelings, about people, places, and things. Especially to the extent that we are psychologically divided. The split is within us and has little to do with the outer person, place, or thing itself. That's my ten cents.
All the best, Steve