Lately I try not to worry about the other person but look at myself to see how I can improve and keep peace whenever presented a difficult relationship... like having more patience for my mother who deserves better. I don’t think my ex was any of those things you’ve described and the only people who I thought may have been like that Inunderstand it was only temporary situation, they eventually change as well as our perspective. All you can do is carry the love and share it to the best of your ability, not worrying so much about the other person.
If u were able to see those relationships as temporary so quickly i will have to ✋ it to you Eric. Its taken me quite a while to work thru them! Everything we encounter changes are perspective...thus its purpose!